Caught YOU smoking now you have to do everything I say
Do ask the person whether they want you to say no to smoking pot. A more poetic way of saying this: weed reveals and obscures the group's intentions. Do ask the person whether they want you to practice what you preach and act as a smoker and you don't tell mom and dad or they smoke. Either he gives it up and you don't tell mom and dad or they find out asap. Smoking a joint is now legally indistinguishable from drinking a beer in these two.